Does your mind go blank when loved ones ask what you want for Christmas? If so, fear not, the marmaLADY's wishlist is here to help

Life can get so busy working all hours and looking after others (friends, partners, babies, parents) that time spent thinking about what you want for Christmas doesn't get much of a look-in. And you'd be forgiven for thinking, “I have a roof over my head, people who love me, food in the fridge and clothes on my back… anything else is a bonus and I certainly don’t have time to sit around writing letters to Santa!” But we argue that having a Christmas wishlist is, in fact, the most selfless Christmas task of all.

You're doing friends and family a favour! Instead of wasting hours wracking their brains trying to come up with something you might like or spending hard earned money on something you definitely won't, a wishlist will save your loved ones time and energy and, when your face lights up on Christmas day, double their gift-giving satisfaction.

So no more blanks when mother/sister/boyfriend/brother say “What would you like for Christmas darling?” Get out your wishlist. You can copy and paste or just send this link straight to whomever is asking. No fuss, no hassle and no question about the treats that you deserve.

A chaise longue
Room One’s ultimate chaise longue. Okay, so it's £2,500 but it's absolutely divine and will last forever.

Luxury gift box
Mee Boutique gift boxes. Ranging from £30-£150, these delectable pink giftboxes are filled with tactile treats, from chiffon knickers and feather fans to butterfly garlands and sequin slipper socks.

Chocolates
Prestat Babes are dangerously delicious and gorgeously girlie. The unmistakable pink box with gold swirls perfectly echoes the divinely scrumptious treats from the Queen’s Chocolatier.

Indulgent Body lotion
Benefit’s Maybe Baby Body Lotion is a must-have for any softly scented glamour puss.

Make-up goodies
Any makeup treat from the superbly packaged POUT is guaranteed to make you feel gorgeous and glitzy.

Leather tote bag
The Ormala Tote from IGNES Bags is seriously classy (as are all of Maria Estrada’s lovingly Uruguay-made bags) and the quality will last a lifetime. (Ordered before 12:30pm they arrive the next day!)

A personalised gift book
Lost for words gift books create the most beautiful keepsakes out, truly personal and completely thoughtful, a sign of true love! (Two week order time though!)

An elegant cake stand
The Baby Blue Cake Stand from GollyGosh, is stylishly scalloped to grace with all things delicious!!

A journal
A Kiki James Bloomsbury Journal in soft pink leather, to scribble down all your thoughts in for 2007.

A classic dress
The Julia Clancy Ribbon Dress from Brittique.com is gorgeous, sexy (in a modern Grace Kelly kind of way), classy and timeless.

Pearls
A girl can never have too many pearls and these pink drop earrings from KP Rocks are just that little bit different – a delightful bargain.

Healthy food hamper
If you think hampers are for grandmas and great aunts, think again, this one is designed for healthy, fish-foodie types focused on topping up their omega three oils in the most indulgent fashion. Out with cod liver oil, in with Kensington Place’s Top chef Rowley Leigh’s personally chosen hamper. £99. For orders please ring: 01603 713 937 or Fax: 01603 716 453 or email sales@hamperpeople.com.

Beauty treats
The Glory Year gift voucher from in home health and beauty company Return to Glory goes on giving long after Christmas.

Scented candles
Hand-poured Boudoir and Gorgeous Grapefruit Candles, from The Saucy Fairy – they burn for 48 hours, giving Jo Malone’s a run for their money!

Bath oil
Although last but not least we are most definitely adding Jo’s Grapefruit Bath Oil to our list.

So what are you waiting for? Send to a friend and just wait for the Christmas goodies to start rolling in!